And here it is the year anniversary and once again I didn't know how to talk to her. I asked Kev what do I?
I don't want her to think I don't realize it's been a year, I don't want her to think I have forgotten about him, I don't want to upset her.....what do I do? I started the day off with texting her to see how she was and how her day was going. She said she was ok, she didn't sleep the night before but was ok. It was a sad day for her because people were texting her to let her know they were thinking about her. I told her that people just want you to know they love you and are sad for you as well. I am pretty sure she actually did like the acknowledgement that people remembered, but still it did make her sad.
I still wasn't sure what to do so I thought I would just pick up some flowers and go put them in her apartment so she would have something waiting for her when she got home. Her friends Laura and Megan text me to say they too weren't sure what to do so they left her a present for when she got home as well. I stopped after work to get flowers and of course as I got out of the car at her apartment she pulled up. So much for her having a surprise when she walked in. She asked me what I was doing there and I told her I just wanted to let her know I was thinking of her and loved her. We stopped right in the middle of the sidewalk and hugged. I honestly wanted to burst out in tears, but surprisingly didn't. When she opened the door she saw Laura & Megan's present.
I think it was a tough couple of days for her as well as the whole year, but she is so amazing and so strong it's unbelievable.
- Live Well, Love Much, Laugh Often
- As of January 2009, I no longer have a job. It's not that I lost it, but after 26 1/2 years of working at the Post Office, I retired. According to everyone I know, I don't do anything all day, so I decided to start a blog. Now I can blog about what I don't do all day. I am married to Kevin, who is the most awesome husband I could ever have. It's because of him, that I do not go to work any more. I love that and I love him for that. Between the 2 of us we have 4 children. Hunter 31, Heather 29, Paul 28 and Alicia 26.
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